In cases like these one might have the urge to make this friend happy but I think she needs to be sad.
It's healthy to be sad.
She needs to cry and be alone.
Which is why on December 20th I won't call her to ask if she's doing alright because I know the answer to that. She won't be "alright" and I can only help her by staying away.
Any suggestions on the Mix? I have until tomorrow night to do this!